Man, as a natural being, lives in a challenge-reaction relationship.
What it is about for the Idler, is to look destiny in the eyes; that is to say: to become your reactions present in passive listening; to observe and feel them completely with the heart and the mind; to observe them neutral as in a mirror without saying yes and no; to feel them deeply and incisively without seeking to achieve anything with it.
Shortly said: to omit dividing your reactions in likes and dislikes, good and evil, pleasant and unpleasant.
That´s the call of destiny.
At the very moment you divide them, you become the reactions absent, you relate doubtful, evaluating or offended to them. And then you don´t understand them.