You must try to become clarified about your thought-process.
Therewith is meant that you in your daily life must seek to be your will to power - and its miserable consequences and results - present.
When you realize the difference between the natural need and the will to power, then the right basis for your thinking is formed.
Some kind of will to power is always the cause of conflict, to unscrupulously national hate and masked brutality.
Unless you understand and get grip of your will to power, you will never be able to understand the reality, which is transcending all struggles and sorrows.
You must begin with yourself as a communicative being; that is to say: with your relationship with things and to your fellow men.