Philosophical seen it is therefore not interesting for the Philosophical Globetrotter to know who you are in a certain conflict, to know the peripheral conflicts in your nature; their content.
What you want to know is why there altogether is conflict.
When you ask yourself this question, you see a fundamental problem, which nothing has to do with the peripheral conflicts and their solutions. It is this central problem, which is important.
And what you see is, that the actual nature of the desire, if not fully understood, inevitably must lead to conflict.