In order to be able to do that
you must be yourself present – not only wander absent through life – but be
present in that very moment, where there is a challenge, present with the whole
of your being, as you listen passively with the heart and with the mind, so that
you clearly see and feel what there is said – regardless of whether it is an abuse,
or flattery, or an opinion about you.
You will then discover, that
there not at all is any image.